Catholics and Choice

From Guido Fawkes:

"Normally the non-Catholic partner agrees, at the request of the priest, to let the Catholic partner bring up the children in the faith if they are being married in a Catholic church."

From Tim Worstall:

"Umm, no
The non-Catholic partner has to agree to let the Catholic partner bring the children up in the faith if they are to be allowed to marry in a Catholic Church."

Well yes, obviously. But the non-Catholic partner doesn't have to get married in a Catholic Church.